I am with him 24/7. He cannot be left alone. He cannot walk, talk, think, answer phone and he is incontinent of ruin wand has a colostomy bag. He is bedbound. He cannot answer the phone, start the TV, or even change channels. I bathe him, change him, cook for him and give him his meds and daily comforts. We have no family to help. I am all he has and feeling very locked in. I cannot leave him alone, not even to buy groceries, get the car serviced or go to a doctors appointment. I am as bound to the house as he is.
I know how awful it is to consider putting someone we love into a nursing home but there comes a time when we have to face the fact that we just can't do it anymore.
Get the help so you can take care of yourself, go to the Dr, go shopping, get dinner out, visit some friends, get some rest. Hugs and your in my thoughts
How is your health?