He is very ungrateful he has no one else but me. I am not well myself and I fear he is driving me to a stroke or an aneurysm. I tried very hard. Sometimes he’s not as bad, but he can flip at the drop of a hat so can I. I don’t want to put him in a home but it looks like that’s what’s going to happen and it’s gonna happen soon.
We are not violent towards each other, we’ve been together 45 years. I’m so done I can’t get help from anywhere because we can’t afford it. They say we make too much for the state to help but not enough to help ourselves. What can I do?
Wishing you the best going forward.
Sorry that you have too much money but not enough money. Between a rock and a hard place.
If his condition warrants it, it may be time to place him. It may be hard to do that but there may be no other way for you to protect your own health and well being.
Good luck.
Spend the money and consult a certified elder law attorney, www.nelf.com is where you will find one near you.
There are ways to get approved for help, even if you make to much.
You matter too!