He has gotten her not to trust me and tries to keep me away. He steals and goes through everything. He doesn’t clean and the house is disgusting. She gave me her jewelry and silver to keep for her because she was afraid he would take it. Now he has talked her into getting it back from me and I know if I do we will never see it again. My mom has herself locked in her room with all her belongings and no room to sleep on her bed because of all her belongings taking up the bed. He blocks my calls and has told my mom not to trust me. I’ve never seen her like this. He is also giving her methamphetamines METH. He deals in it. And now she is dependent on the drugs and he controls her with it. She has become paranoid and thinks it’s other people stealing from her and not him. She protects him with everything she’s got. Because he takes care of her for free. We tried getting her other help through the state but they wanted to put a lien on her house so she backed out of any kind of service through DSHS. And had him return. She gets angry at me for even suggesting he steals from her. The neighbors have called several times warning me about him. I can’t take her jewelry and silver back because we will never see it again. She got robbed by his friends in the middle of the day a few years ago and they took two medium safes worth thousands with its contents. That’s the day I met this guy. But she thinks he can do no wrong. She called the other day wanting to find another alternative to care but then the next day she was back protecting him again. She wanted me to come clean up after him which I did but he found her one of his girlfriends to come clean for her and she fired me. See he does not want me around and will do anything to keep it that way . I live five minutes from my moms and stand to loose everything if I don’t get him out of her life. But I’ve tried everything. I got an attorney and I’ve called APS and the police several times. They can’t do anything because she turns around and protects him. I am the executor and there are no family members that can help. What can I do next? Do I need a protective order or to take guardianship?? What can I do I’m at my wits end? I stand to lose everything. I live in my grandparents house and he is asking mom to sign everything over to him so I’ll be out on the streets. Help please!!