My grandmother is on Cardizem and Seroquel. She tells me not to worry, that she feels ok, and it would be fine to leave her while I pick up what we need. (I live with her) However, the last time I left for a short time, I came back to find out that she had tried to get on her knees to pray and couldn't get back up, so she struggled and was exhausted. (She has high blood pressure) She just started to have home health nurses come in to check her, but they only stay a few minutes. I am exhausted with worry all the time myself. (I don't drive much either) Our friends and family either live too far away or are too busy with their own families to help. Any ideas are appreciated. Thanks
I was thinking in your case, you may want to hire someone to watch your mother so you could have an occasional girl's day out. You could get everything you need done without feeling rushed, and even have a little time left over to enjoy yourself.
These are the first things to try. Ultimately, many tasks can be done on-line, including food shopping in many areas. But I'd opt to get out for a while before committing yourself to staying indoors 24/7.