My dad has dementia and has been in a memory care ALF for over 2.5 years. He went under Hospice care about 6 weeks ago. Anyone have any input as to how long their LO went on after Hospice stepped in? I don't know what to expect. I know it does not necessarily mean he will go near-term. I'm just very hopeful he does not drag on this way for many more years. Some of the residents at his facility have been there for 10 years or more. I'm hoping Hospice care is a sign we can wind this down peacefully without consuming a significant portion of the remainder of my life.
I pray that he is blessed with a quick, peaceful passing.
Hugs! You have been through it with your parents and no doubt you are just exhausted. Try to take care of you.
I don't know how long my Dad has - he suffers from heart related issues also, but all i am trying to do right now is keep him comfortable and be there for him as much as i can. My Mom was in hospice years back, and she passed within a week - so it really depends on the person and when it's their time. It is so hard to say but everyone is right that you just need to stay close to Hospice, and they will keep you informed. .
Be good to yourself and know you are doing the best you can each and every day. I know this is so hard. I am really sorry you are going through this.
My mom who had Alzheimer's was evaluated for hospice in August 2017 and not accepted at that time. Two months later she was evaluated again, and accepted. She passed eight months later.
It is a very individual thing. There is no time table. Some think hospice rushed the death, which isn't the case. They all pass at their time. No crystal balls. Not even hospice knows but are the best source for educated guesses.
Have a question for you please. Do you think that the individual knows when they are dying most of the time? I do.
Maybe not in the case of a sudden death, tragic accident or heart attack but otherwise like a long suffering illness.
What’s your take on this?
His Hospice team and the facility’s own staff can counsel you on what they are seeing with him. There are signs that a person may be ready to pass. Keep in close contact with them and they will keep you informed.
So sorry you are going through all of this. I hope you find peace.