Both of my parents are disabled and high risk for falls. My mom receives a small Social Security income and my dad is on Long Term disability. I am their only child and have moved in with them to provide assistance but currently work 2 jobs because the income is greatly needed. My dad has been disabled for quite a few years but I have seen increased deterioration in my dad's health and mobility since he had a stroke last year. He has fallen several times and my mom who is disabled to a lesser degree is unable to provide the help he needs. I feel as if I really need to be with them full time, however, I can not afford to leave my job or medical benefits (I had my thyroid removed last summer and need repeated doctor visits and lifetime meds). Is there any help for us?
If you do decide to become their paid caregiver, be SURE you are not giving up adequate medical coverage and earning SS credits. You need to take care of your own financial needs and your future first.