Everytime I take her now she says this.
When I say it's okay. She'll say, It's not okay, I'm soaking wet. I'm not stupid. I know what I'm doing. Sometimes she'll rhyme off something that's happened that day, to show she does know. Sometimes she'll say feel the brief. The times I have and I say its dry she says, it is too wet. Sometimes she'll get mad and say just take me out of here then. (I usually take her in and out with a transfer wheelchair.
It's mostly during these times that the dementia is more prominent.
She has an overactive bladder that she takes meds for and has an E-String Ring for estrogen to help stregthen muscles.
I would try adding a barrier cream or a bum powder and see if that doesn't change the feeling of being wet.
Does she continue to insist that she is soaked after everything has had time to dry out and come up to temp?