She yells - What are you doing to me! The temperature in the house may be 2 degrees past where it should be, but she experiences it as she is terribly hot. Last night at 1 in the morning, I put the air conditioning on to calm her down. Alternately, when she takes a shower with the aide there are screams of I'm freezing! Again - what are you doing to me!
I'm finding this frustrating but its obviously part of her vascular dementia which is in the middle stages. Wondering if others are seeing this behavior.
I know for myself, if the house heat temp is set 2 degrees higher, I really can feel the difference. I just hand sig-other his sweatshirt to wear, and I lower the heat.