She has a runny nose and doesn't like to eat the same foods she always has. She developed dementia five years ago. She is 77.
Her teeth keep falling out and now she has dentures.
She doesn't like to talk and only answers questions with one word answers. Recently she has started gasping for air after she speaks.
Today she seemed unsteady on her feet and kept staring at me with a blank look.
I guess my question is, how much longer does this disease go on. It has robbed her of so much. I've been watching her decline for five years and now have finally reached a point where I can't watch this alone anymore. Please send me your advice and connect with me if you would like to discuss a similar situation that you may be facing in your life.
We'd love to hear from you again when you feel up to it.
Carol
As for the raspy cough and has trouble swallowing, you will need to discuss this with your Mom's primary doctor. Maybe it is something like acid reflux which can be controlled, or maybe it is something else.
It sounds like you are caring for your mom at home. If so, stand up and take a bow. If you have been doing this for five years, you should be proud of yourself. You have done something noble. You have stamina and courage. So, be proud, and now, take care of yourself a bit, too!
Tell us more. Do you have any help? What do you do to relax?
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