We found out tonight that not only is the caregiver living there but has moved in her niece full time. Plus now there’s a husband hanging out there, too. ok, and this is in a room with all their parents finances and their unlocked computer.
The parents are both legally competent but dh sees them slipping.
What would you do?
How does an adopted kid not sleep under the same roof as her parent? Go to the district in which they sleep? How do you keep the other presumed legal parent from spending as much time with her when he is here? They have boundaries against the latter two because this kid isn’t yet adopted, that’s why. But she told you it was coming.
Theyve said there’s some tax guy taking out the 1099. And they are solid that they won’t be giving away inheritance.
So, for now, that’s the way it is.
Thats the end of it. Now here’s the vent.
My mil has had obsessions with fake grandchildren before. The time before it was a child whom the ils had helped their friends adopt, but there were never financial consequences.
I really hope this situation can be reigned in. They really need to be removed from your in laws home all together. I can see how this could easily end up being a nightmare.
I can’t imagine how stressful this is for your husband. Hopefully, it will be settled and other arrangements can be made.