We found out tonight that not only is the caregiver living there but has moved in her niece full time. Plus now there’s a husband hanging out there, too. ok, and this is in a room with all their parents finances and their unlocked computer.
The parents are both legally competent but dh sees them slipping.
What would you do?
Ihave informed dh that if I walk in on this kid again “helping” I will just wait in the car. This is a 6 yo who is only there bc their aunt is.
Further, this cg allegedly has this whole house they own and are renting!
Perhaps DH could have a talk with his parents about what they are getting out of it. Are they lonely? Is it the company they want? Are the dynamics 'interesting'? Do they feel good about ‘helping’? Why do these people need ‘help’?
It could be time for tours of some particularly nice Senior Living or even Assisted Living places, with lots of activities.
I’m out as far as the little girl is concerned. Yes she likes to play wait on ppl but I would never ask her for one as the law sees it as child labor. And I live a county over from Alva deer who can talk your ear off about how hard it is to evict, which may be the situation