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My grandmother had a series of strokes that took her from Friday being fine to Monday with full blown dementia. It is difficult when it happens quickly.
A certified elder law attorney can help you navigate through this situation.
Focusing only on one aspect, does she have assets that would be distributed? Who and how many heirs does she have? Is there friction in the family by those anticipating to receive post death assets? Are any assets held jointly with others?
If she has no assets, and holds accounts jointly, the issue of estate planning is moot.
With rapid memory loss, though, you're wise to address this now.
If she does have disposable assets, I would read some estate planning guidelines of firms in your area before choosing an elder law or estate planning attorney, as you want to be sure that you're getting someone very experienced, knowledgeable and amenable to working with someone facing declining memory.
Check your state's or county's bar association for practice area groups, identify the EP and EL firms, review their websites, get pricing (hourly or by EP package planning), and raise the memory loss issue before you decide on someone.
Ask for the Social Worker or a Social work connected with the Assisted Home. They can guide you how to do temporary guardianship for your Mother so you can manage her affairs. In fact I am shocked no one has reached out to you during admission or prior hospitalization, because they generally need family involved when patients cannot sign their own admission papers. You will need to collect mail meanwhile and will have to have someone in charge of paying crucial bills that might have serious repercussions. Do not sign your name to anything. Keep diary daily in composition book with no tear out pages and with no erasers, so you can be recompensed if you have to pay a bill. You do not say how much family is involved. You will need a get-together to decide who wants to do what/is willing or able to do what. You will eventually perhaps need an elder law attorney so someone can take over as conservator or guardian for your Mom.
Even with memory loss she may be able to sign the PoA if she can understand what the documents permit, and an attorney would interview her to this end. I would make an appointment with an elder law attorney for the both of you. In my experience the attorney will take her into an office without you in order to protect her from any pressures, and to assess whether she can in fact understand what the docs do and what she is doing in signing them. I took my very elderly aunts to do this and one of them has memory loss and mild/moderate dementia and she got her documents created.
At this same meeting, if your mother wishes, the attorney can also help her create a Last Will. If the attorney has experience with estate planning and Medicaid qualification, I strong recommend you also discuss this as well. Some attorneys will give a free consult for their first meeting with you. Even after that, it is an excellent investment of effort and money.
Medically, she needs to ask for the Medical Representative form at every one of her doctor's offices and assign you as her MR. Without this the team cannot discuss her medical info with you without her being present. This is part of HIPAA rules. It is also very important that, with her primary physician's input, she fill out a Living Will so that she does not receive too little or too much intervention to prolong her life if she is unable to make those decisions herself. One copy goes to you and the other to her physician's office for their files. Once you have these documents in place, you both can breath easier.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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My grandmother had a series of strokes that took her from Friday being fine to Monday with full blown dementia. It is difficult when it happens quickly.
A certified elder law attorney can help you navigate through this situation.
nelf.org is where we found ours.
Best of luck and a great big warm hug for you.
If she has no assets, and holds accounts jointly, the issue of estate planning is moot.
With rapid memory loss, though, you're wise to address this now.
If she does have disposable assets, I would read some estate planning guidelines of firms in your area before choosing an elder law or estate planning attorney, as you want to be sure that you're getting someone very experienced, knowledgeable and amenable to working with someone facing declining memory.
Check your state's or county's bar association for practice area groups, identify the EP and EL firms, review their websites, get pricing (hourly or by EP package planning), and raise the memory loss issue before you decide on someone.
At this same meeting, if your mother wishes, the attorney can also help her create a Last Will. If the attorney has experience with estate planning and Medicaid qualification, I strong recommend you also discuss this as well. Some attorneys will give a free consult for their first meeting with you. Even after that, it is an excellent investment of effort and money.
Medically, she needs to ask for the Medical Representative form at every one of her doctor's offices and assign you as her MR. Without this the team cannot discuss her medical info with you without her being present. This is part of HIPAA rules. It is also very important that, with her primary physician's input, she fill out a Living Will so that she does not receive too little or too much intervention to prolong her life if she is unable to make those decisions herself. One copy goes to you and the other to her physician's office for their files. Once you have these documents in place, you both can breath easier.
Even if she has lost her memory, can she still understand legal documents that she is signing in the moment?