She is over 200# and I am not strong enough to catch her when she falls. She also won't listen to me so these events happen randomly. She has health insurance and Medicare but we have few if any dollars to get that help outside of those resources. Looking for a starting point. TY
Next ask the dr to order physical therapy for her. It will help strengthen the legs. Occupational therapy will help build up her arm strength. Do NOT go buy a lift chair until she can simply no longer stand on her own. It will keep her arms and legs stronger for much longer if she gets up and down on her own. -- My mother brought that to my attention years ago and she was absolutely correct. It is easy to think an elder needs some extra equipment, but it's good to let them struggle just a tad to stay in motion. And you need your mom to stay in motion.
Depending on where you live, there might be some low cost help. However, you say she has Medicare and insurance so that means her income is probably over the limit to get Medicaid (and additional help that goes with that program). For the most part, there will be no substantial help in the house for you/her, so keeping her strong is the big thing now.
If she fights the walker idea - and there's a good chance she will - just let her know how many times she's fallen in X number of months and you are not able to get her off the floor....or she will break a hip. She can work on herself and commit to exercise or take the chance of ending up in a NH if she breaks something.
Yes, don't even try to pick her up. Its dead weight. My daughter is an RN and was helping my Dad on the toilet when he started falling sideways and she grabbed for him. She pulled her muscles so bad they were pulling her spinal column out of alignment. She used a Chiropractor for ages.
I agree, get her to a doctor. They can check for neuropathy. She may need labs to find out how her numbers stand. It can be something as simple as a med. But with diabetes the legs are the first to go because of poor circulation. Your Moms weight does not help. Cutting back on her food intake and some light exercise may help her loose some weight. I think they say if 10% weight loss can make a difference.
Diabetes takes a tole on the body. If your Mom has had no major problems to this point, she is one lucky person.
I have a vague recollection of a lecture I attended at one of the apparently now nonexistent AAA expos. The medical pro presenting addressed other issues affecting balance, including hearing and sight. Have either been tested lately? If not, ask for them when you see a doctor, which should be ASAP.
my mom quit walking to the dining room.. didn’t want to be there..she refused to take walks, not long after, she struggled to walk to the bathroom, then the falls started, shortly there after, memory care took her walker away, because she was not safe… few weeks later she could only stand and pivot with assistance to wheelchair… 3 weeks later , hoyer lift… my mom has passed this last week. What I know now , is that she was dying. My mom had been in hospice
Any sudden changes should be thoroughly investigated by a health care team. This could be as simple as a UTI or as dangerous as a stroke. Call 911 if you have to.
Thankfully she is to large for you to think you can catch. This is NEVER a good idea, no matter the size of the adult, it is a good way for both of you to get severely injured.
Finding out what has caused this sudden change is your first step to getting her help.