My neighbor now hides her tv remote in her purse because she says that people are coming in and eating her food, drinking her coffee all up and watches tv and leaves it on. When I ask her how they get in she tells me that they come from upstairs but she lives in a one story home. Also, I have only been able to give her one shower in just about two years now. She has three washcloths that she uses. One for her face, one for her body and the other for her private areas but she never remembers which one is which. Any suggestions?
But you do have POA for your neighbor? And why not start with in-home care a couple times a week to see what ADLs neighbor can still do on their own, if any? What does neighbor's doctor recommend?
Your neighbour is very fortunate to have you nearby. No family that you're aware of, or does anyone else check in on her?