I moved back home 6 months ago and I have noticed my mom gets confused easily now. If she doesn't stick to where she is use to going she gets lost or turned around very easily. She gets very frazzled then acts confused. I've been taking notes on what's been happening. When do I get my mom's POA involved without my mom getting upset?
My one concern is that ur not the POA. This makes its hard if u end up being the Caregiver and someone else is the POA. If you end up Caregiving, I would make sure that there will be enough money to continue her living in her house. That u can work and have aides carrying for Mom. You will need time to yourself. If she has money, maybe an AL will be better.
Best of luck!