When my mom was able to go to the bathroom herself, I would put an overnight pad inside her extra large “panties” In the morning. During the day when she would wet the pad she was able to rip it out, pull up her “panties” and be good to go at least till evening. The XL were easier for her to manage and accommodated the extra pad.
When I was advised (by memory care staff) that the XL were too big that I switched to large. And THEN I found out that I should have been slitting the bottom of the pad to facilitate absorption OR using a different type of pad without the bottom barrier.
Anyone know which brand of overnight, extra long pad that would have been appropriate?