My MIL has lived w/us for 6 yrs. She is deteriorating and we,ve made the decision to place her in assisted living near us. She is angry ,bitter,paranoid person & has nothing but hatred towards us ( mostly me).The question is how do we handle this w/her...how do we bring up the subject w/her ? How do we get her there...she will not cooperate & will be dificult & disruptive. Please anyone w/advise help us
Once you do get her moved, don't expect her to be happy. Some people refuse to be happy and some people even get their "entertainment" out of giving other's grief. If she's always been like this to some extent, nothing is likely to change her very much. Check with the experts and do what you can. Then, just bite the bullet, have her things moved and do it. Good luck,
Carol