She often asks for them often. She would like their phone numbers and addresses so she can contact them What is the best approach to use when asked.?It's painful to tell her that they've died because each time is like her hearing the news for the first time.
Please advise.This also applies to friends who have died and she talks as if they are still alive.Thank you.
I would put on a pot of tea and would redirect the subject. And this seem to calm her down as well. We would also look at magazines together and discuss recipes and gardening which her favorite things to do. I also had her write notes and such, and told her I would mail them.
Different things work for different people. Hugs to you - not an easy thing and so very sad. Take care.