She recently lost her three closest friends and neighbors, all within the last 12 months and hasn't gotten over it (who would). Another old neighborhood friend (who moved away) just passed away over the weekend. She hasn't asked about this friend or seen her in a few year (sometimes the small blessings of dementia). She's getting ready to start radiation for breast cancer and I'm afraid if I tell her, she'll really just give up. What would you do? The service is tomorrow.