My husband was very aggressive at the nursing home and was taken to the hospital behavorial unit for evaluation, and I call about him, but visitation has not been mentioned, so I am thinking that it is best for me to let them do their job and for me to stay away until he improves. Am I wrong? I call nearly every day for updates. I'm afraid if I go see him, I may be interfering with any progress they have made.
I think you should ask them directly. In most cases, I'd say you should visit, but this may be a case where the medical people don't think that's best. I've always thought that the most reassuring thing is for the person to see you, but I don't know what his trigger was that made his behavior go off track. Please ask directly what they feel is best.
Carol