Her income is $1,150 per month. She does own her own condo and has a small investment, which she adamantly wants to leave for her 4 children. I know that all of her assets would be used for her care if needed. The extra money from us gave her a bit extra to "enjoy" life a little.
We just stopped the deposit and will give her cash just in case.
She will not be able to leave her children anything if she needs public assistance, that is the way it is and should be.
I would encourage her to designate something special to each heir, maybe a figurine or dish that is special to her and will bring back happy memories of her when used or seen. Personal items are exempt unless they are high value items that are traceable.
You are a lovely daughter to ensure that she has some money for doing things to enrich her life. Kudos to you for caring about that for her. It makes a world of difference.
Please check with a SW at your local Area Agency on Aging to see how the guidelines work in OH.
I don't want to hurt her ability to qualify for Medicaid if it would be needed in the future knowing that there is a five year look back.
So if you give her cash money her budget could still require explanation. Ex: Your income is $1000 and your bills total $990 a month. How do you buy your meds? How do you buy groceries? etc. When the answer is my child gives me $200 cash a month and I use it for food and getting my hair done, it is countable income.
Pay a couple of bills direct and that will free up the same amount she is not spending out of her bank acct. She can use that freed up money for the extras she wants.
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