My parents live in Idaho. They both just got into an assisted living facility. They have Medicare & Medicaid. My stepdad is a veteran.
After all is said and done, they have a balance between the two of them of $39.00 each month from their Social Security checks.
$39 a month is not enough for them to get by. It won't even pay for toiletries. Plus, they have a car and so need to pay for auto insurance, and yearly registration. They also have his life insurance monthly payment due each month.
Is there a way to get the costs down at the AL place?
Are there any programs available that will supplement with what Medicare & Medicaid pay towards their rent?
Sorry, but when parents go on Medicaid, they get a small amount for personal items. Family then needs to help out. If gifts are given at Birthdays and Holidays, ask for money so you can buy them what is needed.
If your Dad fought during a War, he is not entitled to Aids and Attendance because he is on Medicaid. You can't have both and Medicaid pays more. But they do have a $90 personal Allowance that Dad my be able to get. Maybe even Mom. Be aware, though, personal allowances effect the asset limit so they need to be spent. Your County has a local VA office, call them.
If you have found a place in which there is assistance to allow them to stay with Medicaid I think it will be up to family to try to help them in the ability to get their own toiletries and support this car so long as one or the other can still drive. However, it must be recognized that there will be added costs as level of care rises, and I am wondering if family or POA have discussed this with the facility. Hate to think of their having to move to a nursing home, but it may be the case. Also consider, at that time, move to Board and Care which may be less costly for two in the room.
I wish you the very best of luck.
I am assuming that they never planned for their retirement. this is one of the consequences.