I was primary caregiver for both my elderly parents. My dad passed away in Aug of this year and my mom passed away this past Tuesday. I’m 36 and have a 14 year old who’s on the spectrum. I put my life on hold for 12 yrs to take care of my parents. I also have 3 siblings (who are in their 60’s) 2 of my siblings called the financial firm to “help me” the day after my mom passed. And have not stopped calling or texting me to see if I need “help” to start the estate stuff. I didn’t get the chance to mourn my dad passing because my mom went down hill right after and it was all about her. Now she’s gone and I can’t even mourn her because my siblings are being money hungry. What do I do? Nothing was set up in writing except for a few small things. My son needs stability and they are wanting me to buy them out of their shares for the house. They are fussing over the repairs my mom wanted done getting done but in the next sentence they say we just want what mom wanted. Both my parents wanted me and my son taken care of. What do I do? Where do I even start?