My siblings and I finally called APS to check on my parents. Our father, who has Alzheimers, is noncompliant, not taking his meds and is probably borderline personality disorder. He has been emotionally abusive his whole life, and our mom become massively depressed, panicked and suicidal. She was unable to act to save them and place him. APS came to the conclusion that our dad needs to be placed in memory care, and we all agree, including our mom. But obviously our dad won't go willingly. It will be an involuntary placement. We are now going to work with APS and a lawyer to move things along. I'm wondering if any of you have experienced involuntary placement and what that was like. I hate the idea of my dad being traumatized and my mom, too. Of course I will go down to take care of them during this transition (I live far away)/ It will be horrible for all of us. I'm hoping they don't use the cops, but even the medical transport would be involuntary. If you had to involuntarily place someone like this, how did it go? Any advice?