Her husband is trying to provide care, but is 88-years-old and about out of energy. She demands attention nearly 24 hours a day. We will only consider facilities in Granbury, TX.
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If your sister has Dementia she is no longer able to make decisions for herself. Its not what she wants, its what she needs. She needs to be in a facility because her 88 yr old husband can no longer care for her. If they can afford it Memory care. If not, Dementia paying for her care.
What ur BIL needs to do is see an Elder Lawyer well versed in Medicaid. He will help BIL split marriage assets. Sister's split going towards her care. Before it runs out, Medicaid is applied for. BIL stays in the home, has a car and enough or all of the monthly income to live on. This is just the basics an Elder Lawyer can tell BIL more.
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What ur BIL needs to do is see an Elder Lawyer well versed in Medicaid. He will help BIL split marriage assets. Sister's split going towards her care. Before it runs out, Medicaid is applied for. BIL stays in the home, has a car and enough or all of the monthly income to live on. This is just the basics an Elder Lawyer can tell BIL more.