My mother has mod alz is in a wheelchair partially incontinent very verbally abusive I'm at my wits end recently moved to il unfamiliar with help here moved from fl on an urgency need we had mom in rv (was doing well) had a lot of mechanical problems was stranded off n on for a week until the engine went my sister drove 1200 miles picked us up while my husband stayed with RV to be towed we are financially strapped and I'm on my last thread who and where do I turn to?