He likes this woman 40 years old and he 80 years old.......Her husband seems to be a problem too....I live in Florida Dad in Kentucky... His sisters are tell me he is broke and can't pay his bills...He tells me it is not the woman it is her husband .What to do?
Thirdly, you will need to convince him to get someone to help with his checkbook, making a paper budget in which his monthly bills are paid first, and what's left over can be pocket money. Keep in touch with whomever helps him with this, even if it's not an official POA on financial matters. If his sisters are concerned, one of them might be able to check up on him.
Have you considered moving him to FL to be near you -- and get him away from this woman and her husband?
Does you dad have dementia? My mom was giving hundreds to charities every month, with no recollection of who she wrote a check to. People from church befriended my mom and she became way to dependent on them. They did some unethical things (long story) and I literally put her in the car and brought her to my home state. Unfortunately with many elders, they are lonely and when someone shows an interest in them, they are so happy to have friends that they can get taken advantage of.
Sounds like you need to assess you dad's situation and make some changes. It happens to most of us with elder parents. Sounds like dad can no longer manages his finances. Does anyone have POA. I would also call social services maybe they can help out.
If he is incompetent and you have medical evaluation behind you, you may have to take the difficult and uneasy step of filing for conservatorship/guardianship.
As you won't be able to do much unaided from Florida, you will need to make a showing of your physical presence in Kentucky.
Get on this right away before your dad finds himself penniless.