She had CHF and COPD (non-smoker), is mostly bedridden however, can get to the bathroom with her walker. She has some cognitive decline and has started yelling at the staff, her roommate and the roommate’s daughters and swears/name-calls them. She’s mad at me all the time and my sis and I wonder if she needs meds to calm her. I think she’s in more pain than she lets on. Her legs hurt all the time but she tells the R.N. at the NH and also the hospice nurses that she’s not in pain. We wonder if pain meds might help with her horrible temper and the yelling/name-calling. What should we do?