I am taking care of my 88 year old mother and 53 year old mentally handicapped sister, this is a package deal. My father passed away last year (he also needed my help) and my mother and handicapped sister are emotionally inseparabable. so I am taking care of two people and am getting weary
Have you looked for a local adult day program for them? That can often be extremely valuable to the caregivers and also provide some stimulation and social interaction for the participants.
I can certainly understand that you are getting weary. I hope you can find some ways to recharge your batteries before you face total burnout.
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