I'm taking care of my Mother with Temporal Lobe Dementia, looking for people going through the same things as myself. It does get overwhelming, the other night my Husband and i went out to dinner and left her in good hands, she was unhappy and asked me if i was sick of her. Talk about guilt i'm doing my best but just needed a few hours to myself, i was only gone a few hours and she was asleep when i returned.
There will be good days and probably lots more bad days, so learning to go with the flow (way easier said than done!) helps me get through this.
I read on another thread that you are planning to sell the electronic pill dispenser. DON'T!!!! You will need it to remind you when mom needs her meds. Many things will distract you and you will be tired, so it is a lifesaver. I know because I have one for Mom and it reminds me and the paid caregiver when Mom is distracting us with one of her "days".
This site is full of wonderful caregivers and everyone is so helpful when you need them. Don't be afraid to ask questions and don't be put off if you don't like the answers you get. Most of us are over tired and over stressed and sometimes it shows in our comments, but we are all here because this site works and is a lifesaver for caregivers!