My husband, the last of his days, I had to bathe him twice a week. The nursing home and doctors' bills haven' t been paid, too high and we did not have insurance because of what the Democrats did when they took office in 2008. They took our health care away from us and our life insurance because they thought we rich. Ha! Ha! Not. But, it's hard taking care of anyone that is bed ridden. That's why they need to figure out or universal healthcare and the basics. Basics for all, even them. Because, what they are doing now is elder abuse.