I feel better knowing that the kids may not see exactly the way i do or feel the same around my father . His illness is not contagious he has alzheimers and dementia ,he also suffers fr diabetes He has to be on a low sugar diet he dsnt need insulin. His sugar should be checked daily. I will often tell my dad i will pay him if he eats. He gives a hard time ,suffering biabetic shock episodes in the past ill do anything to make him eat .Will alzheimers eventually make him forget to chew or swallow
Alzheimer's Disease at Age-Matters
Behavior of Alzheimer's Patients
Thanks to Beth Creason at about.com
The Seven Stages of Alzheimer's Symptoms
Do you know what to expect during the course of Alzheimer's disease? There are seven stages that describe each phase of this debilitating disease. Not everyone who has AD will have all of these symptoms, nor will they necessarily have the symptoms in the order I have listed, but, by using this guide, you can get an idea of the progressive decline of the patient's cognitive functions.
Alzheimer's disease usually lasts from three to 20 years. During this time, cognitive function steadily decreases. In many cases, patients do not die of Alzheimer's itself, but other complications, such as pneumonia, heart failure or infections.
Let's examine the seven stages:
Stage One: There are no symptoms at all. The patient has no memory impairment nor does he have any visible signs of other cognitive decline.
Stage Two: The patient will notice some mild memory loss. He or she will usually start by misplacing objects or forgetting names that are well known to them. He or she may wonder about the memory loss, but will usually blame it on aging.
Stage Three: The victim will notice an increase in memory impairment. They may make a trip to the store and forget how to get back home. Their work performance may suffer because the patient may forget important details while working on a project. They may start trying to think of what a particular object is called, and the frequency of forgetting names of people they should know well will probably increase. Reading may become a problem, as the patient cannot remember what he or she has just read. At this point, the patient may lose or misplace something valuable, not remembering where they put it. Concentration will become very difficult. Most victims will go into denial during this stage, and will tend to have problems with anxiety.
Stage Four: In this stage, some long term memory loss will be seen. When asked about news headlines or current events, they may have difficulty in recalling what is happening. Travel becomes difficult because of the anxiety it causes. The person may not be able to handle their finances any longer because of confusion. The victim will usually start to withdraw from anything that presents a challenge. Denial is still prominent.
Stage Five: The patient now has to have assistance with some activities of daily living. They usually need help in selecting the clothes they wear, as during this stage they tend to dress inappropriately. They can still feed themselves and use the restroom without assistance. They may have trouble remembering some family members names, especially grandchildren or siblings, but can usually tell you their own names or the names of their spouse or children. They have trouble recalling such things as their address, or phone number.
Stage Six: The victim may now start forgetting the name of their spouse or children. They usually cannot recall any recent events in their lives. They may be able to recall things that have happened in the past, but cannot go into detail about the events. They are disoriented to time and place. When asked to count from ten, they will usually not be able to do this. They may even have difficulty in counting from one to ten. They may become incontinent, and will require help with most activities of daily living, such as bathing, toileting, dressing and sometimes eating. Delusions and paranoia may be a problem. They may start having some difficult behavior problems. Anxiety, agitation or violent behavior may occur.
Stage Seven: Most communication skills are lost. Speech is non-existent. The patient is incontinent. They will need help with feeding and toileting. They will become unable to walk or control other motor functions. During this stage, the person usually becomes bedfast.
It's been my experience that many patients will stay in stage five or six for a long period of time. Some patients that I met several years ago that were in these stages are still in the same stage. Not every patient is the same, so the stages and length of time in each stage will vary.
You can help the patient by showing him or her a lot of love and patience. Learning the different stages and knowing what to expect, will help you, the caregiver.
My mom had the same problem with the shower. She was very good about it until all of a sudden she absolutely refused to go near the shower. We think she may have forgotten how to adjust the water temp at one point and it either got too hot or too cold. Too late we learned about this possibility from the Alzheimer's Association. They recommend starting the use of a bathtub chair and wand shower as soon as the Alzheimer's patient is willing to accept being bathed by a caregiver. The sooner this happens, the easier it is for her to adjust to the caregiver and to the new method of taking a shower. Once an Alzheimer's patient has a bad experience with something they instinctively stay away from it.
Good luck~
Hap
Eating and dementia is often an eiither good or bad mix- it seems that you are now in the bad mix area. People with dementia are still with us so now you will have to try to figure out why mom doesn't want to eat.Knowing the stages of dementia is good, but most people travel within several stages daily. She may need food that is easy to eat such as finger food or she may no longer like what is being served. Give her two choices of meals that you can easily prepare.
Some people no matter what stage they are in may have swallowing problems. Have the doctor order a swallowing test. Sometimes a person may need to start again with pureed food and then gradually move back to table food.
What is going on when the meal is being served? A person with dementia might not remember what is in front of them. They may look to you for clues as to what to do. They may just need a gentle start from you. They may be confused as to which utencil to use. Place the fork or spoon in their hand. If needed- hand feed them.
Keep mealtime simple. Focus on eating. If you are hand feeding mom keep encouraging her and when the food is in her mouth rub your index finger on her cheek to encourage swallowing.
Hope this helps.
The more you learn and know about this disease, the better you will be prepared. You seem to be off to a good start, by entering your question in this online forum.
Once again--Good luck :-)
Hap!
An elderly person living with a younger person (daughter, son, caregiver etc.) should always be provided for> meals have to be served to them and bath/shower water started for them before they enter the bath. Clothes should be selected for them, and they should be groomed by the person caring for them. It was an absolute joy taking care of my husband during the last two years of his life. What I wouldn't give to have him back home here again.
http://www.alzheimersreadingroom.com/2010/02/alzheimers-are-feeding-tubes-good.html
patient had to have a shower twice a week is not true. As long as you give her a good sponge bath each morning (when you aren't giving her the shower), once a week is fine. I give my m-i-l a good sponge bath every morning except her shower morning. Elderly people don't sweat as much because they are not as active as we younger people are.
To the person who said to hand-feed the elderly Alzheimer's patient, I wouldn't do it. If that person gets to the point where they continue not to eat by themselves, they need to go into a nursing home. I hand-fed my m-i-l last winter and she got used to it. I eventually kept Ensure in the house to feed her meals. Ensure is supposed to take the place of a meal but I limited the Ensure to once a day and pureed the other hot meal. I didn't have too much trouble with brkfst. After so long, she went into the hospital and then the nursing home for rehabilitation. She was eating whole food again within a week of her coming home from nh.
What's in: mashed potatoes, puddings, applesauce, cranberry sauce, chopped veggies and chopped meat. What's Out: Pastries! bread with liquids ( the bread expands), peanutbutter, elbow macaroni or "ringed" macaroni, anything that expands.
When a person such as your dad has dementia, over time they WILL forget how to chew and swallow. For some, they may regain these skills (my mom did after a hospitalization where my sister demanded a feeding tube- luckly for Mom it wasn't in her living will- which made it easier for me to deal with the doctor and NOT have a tube put in place). Mom then went on a diet of blended food and progressed to real food and did well for 10 more years. I say well because she was still with me and I had round the clock care in my home. Frankly, knowing my mother- the last thing she would have wanted was to spend down her childrens inheritence for her care- at this point in her life. The reason that I'm sharing this with you is that a person with dementia,now has a progressive, irreversable brain disorder and that over time, the body will naturally shut down. When that happens, it is a good goodbye. Over the years and working with different hospice agencies I had the opportunity to understand what tube feeding is and how it affects the body.- which is not alsways pleasent. Many nursing homes and ALF's use tube feedings to cut down on the time it takes to actually feed a person- it's for their convience and not in the patients best interest. Nobody HAS to have a feeding tube. Feeding tubes may prolong life for the person but may also prolong suffering. Feeding tubes are often a cultural or religious issue. I look at this as a quality of life issue. Food is love. When a person stops wanting to eat I often wonder if out of love, they are letting us know that it is time to let go.
I don't know where you live or your circumstance and beliefs. The best advice I can give you is to speak with your local hospice- they have clergy, social workers and RN's that work as a team and will best help guide you. G-d bless
I do have providers that come in to assist with her care. But they are only there for a paycheck!!! I have my 25 year old daughter staying with my mother and she is at her wits end with all that is going on. Does anyone have any suggestions that I really could use?