my 79 yr old mother can no longer live on her own. siblings are uninvolved and unwilling to help . we want her to move in with us but do not have room we are willing to pay half cost of adding a room but need her to pay the other half. now siblings are saying i am taking her . she has very low income with only her house which is valued at about 60k we will need 20k for her half of addition. how can i convince mom this is a wise investment for her or can i legally force it . please help
however i am very worried about how having her live with us will affect him. mom is very emotionally needy and can be draining . our youngest just graduated college and we have just started having time for ourselves, he is so great about everything but i do worry about him.