I have two siblings who will and have fought me on everything to do with our Mom. They didn't like the plot in the family cemetery and raised so much HELL the cemetery gave Mom's money back, the cemetery stated Mom could only be buried in the plot reserved by my cousin, their secret (not really a secret) half brother. My Mom did not want this. To avoid airing all the families dirty laundry I went with Mom's other choice, which is beside my Dad. They will hate this and it will be HELL again, maybe worse. These are some MEAN and Crazy women. So far their full brother my half brother is standing beside me which is weird because they were always so close, but he says they are crazy too. I just want Mom's final wishes to be hers, not mine or theirs. They know everyone in these small communities and I do not. Can they have this changed? Can I do anything since the POA will have ended to help support my Mom's wishes? It is really cheap for a burial plot a 50.00 to 100.00, so I don't think the money will be of any issue. I am also sure Mom has mentioned all of this to them before but they just like the Drama and the attention. Can they take Mom's Final wishes away? Thanks for any advise and help I am too Stressed over an issue that shouldn't happen anytime soon.
Also, none of my business, but this sounds like Mom was married more than once, and the sibs want her with THEIR dad and she wants to be with YOUR dad. Again, her choice. But frankly, she and her late husband(s) will all be DEAD, so sounds like a lot of unnecessary drama.