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I've reviewed the alert service options out there but am still confused and could use some insight from those who have used the services.



I'm looking for a service for my uncle who lives now with dad. My uncle is cognitively sharp but has severe vision problems and is afraid that he may fall at night and not be able to get up.



I think a system with an outside monitor might be too much, so maybe just a service that would connect to my phone (I live 3 miles away) or even to reach dad in the other room who could assess the situation and call me.



This would mean he'd have to wear the alert 24/7 and I'm not sure that he will do that.



Any recommendations or suggestions for this type of monitoring service? Or what am I overlooking?

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I purchased a button my mom would wear that, if she pushed it, it would call my phone. My work was 1 mile away from our house. It worked ok for awhile but as her diseased progressed, she could not remember how to use it.

I found when I moved her to the ALF that she did not understand their Buttons, their use and their function.

It did work great while she had the cognitive ability to understand the function. When she pushed the button, it would ring me and she could talk into the device, just like it was a phone on her end, to tell me what was wrong. It connected to my land line. I bought it on Amazon.

You could set the device to ring multiple people if the first person programmed does not pick up.

cwillie’s comments are very good. You do not explain the cognitive function of your dad and his ability to monitor your uncle.

Best of luck.
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LynneF1985 Dec 2022
What service was that? Sounds like what I need for my husband now, even if he needs more later.
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For people with a computer. The Alexia app has a feature where you can designate a specific person’s phone # that will be call when you say “Alexia call help”. The Alexia “Show Me” device will allow “drop in” with audio and video.
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AlabamaRose3 Dec 2022
You don't need a computer , just a smart phone. I have Alexa and it is set up to do this.
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Do not get life alert! I was on the phone with them moments away from sealing the deal and she quickly mentions that if I cancel before the term the contract is up, which I’m allowed to do it anytime, then I have to pay The contact in full. What the heck? No way I didn’t sign up.

we did get Bay alarm and they were great. We received a wristband for her, and a necklace for him. She wouldn’t wear hers after a while but he kept his necklace on, a push button, and it worked great.

quite often he was in the living room and the alarm system was two stairs downstairs then a couple of turns into the bedroom on the far wall. We ( the company & me) could hear each other just fine.

we use them in a couple of false alarms and two times in a real emergency no problems at all.

month-to-month contract no problems. Reasonably priced. Also a Write off as medical expense. And when they called emergency services they would make notifications out to other family members; whoever we chose on the set up.

Good luck!
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SarahDell: Whatever service you do decide on, make sure that the pendant or bracelet is worn on the person all the time. Case in point: My mother did NOT wear her's in the shower ALTHOUGH she was told multiple times that she was supposed to do so.
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i have medical alert that i wear, a necklace. $500 for the year they also have a watch he can wear.
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My dad lived alone. We had a Knoxbox installed on the outside of his home on the porch. And he wore a pendant from Great Call. When he pressed the button or it detected a fall, they called his children in an order we gave them and also asked him if he wanted 911 called. It worked well for us.
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I gave up the alert service when I moved in with mom since there really was no longer any benefit. I'm not sure why your uncle doesn't trust the person he is living with to keep him safe - is your uncle in a separate apartment from your dad or is dad somewhat oblivious to what is going on around him? And you mention having the alerts come to you🤔. Is your father not capable of dealing with this, is this really a case of two people who need to be cared for living together?
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I am using 'Lively" for my Mom. It has GPS and fall detection, so she does not need to alert anyone , it automatically calls my sister or I. It can go a few days on one charge. It provides reassurance for us.
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Go To TMobile ask if they have a special where if you buy a phone $400 you get a free or reduced Apple 🍎 watch - this is what a dementia coach recommended
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We had the necklace monitor with mom’s Humana insurance.

Eh, it was just okay. It did have fall detection on it. Honestly, for us, I found calling 911 faster and easier.

We installed a lock box so the firemen could easily enter. I ordered one from Amazon. All you do is set up a passcode. Easy enough.
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