He is independent but aging. We recently lost my Grandmother who he had to move in with a in her last day to care for her. During this period of time a granddaughter took over his home and made it unsafe and undisreable for him to move back into. Since then me and another responsible sibling had been doing everything possible to get get his lifestyle where it should be so he can enjoy the later stages of his life. The granddaughter has moral issues along with some very bad ethical issues. She steals from him and he will cover it up. I can go on and on about how bad the situation has gotten. He often tells me he doesn't know what he did to have to deal with this situation and just wish he had her out of his life. When anyone tries to address it with her she gets combative. He fears her but fears not being there for her because she has burnt so many bridges. I'm at a loss for what I can do. Its a small community and not a lot of places to turn to. Was hoping someone would read this that has been through similar situation in the past and could offer advice.
If you'll pardon me, I find it a little hard to understand exactly what she's done. Theft is not "emotional abuse." And then on the other hand: if your father is independent, how is she "neglecting" him? In what way did she make the house unsafe? I can't quite get a feel for whether the situation is not as bad as all that, or is very much worse and warrants police or APS intervention.