Okay grannie's back from the hospital.. They had her medicine list completely screwed along with trying to send her home on IV Coumadin
, and massive BP meds to be given in the morning ( would have bottomed her out) and yep sent her home with a superbug with no antibiotics and little to no training for us on how to deal with it. Primary doc came out got most of her meds figured out ( well we did and they agreed) Picking antibiotics up this morn.. Here the weird part.. She was asking for her mom last night, got scared did not sleep all night ( 4th night since she's been home she hasnt slept) This morning kept asking me what my name was, if I was her daughter in law ect. I guess Im asking is it the dementia or the infection or a combination of the both?
I think perhaps it doesn't really matter, it really sounds to me as though they have given up on her and are sending her home for her final days. Are they being honest about that, what are they telling you? This is a terrible thing to be dealing with unsupported and without on call medical assistance, has anyone suggested hospice?
It's probably both, though - not likely that one wouldn't have any influence on the other. Plus, did the primary doctor check her O2 levels? With the pneumonia, she might be struggling a bit there too, perhaps.
But whatever is going on, I hope she settles down very soon once the antibiotics kick in. Her being frightened and wakeful must be miserable for everyone there, I'm so sorry. Take care of yourself, too.
When I saw the way they were trying to send her home I immediately assumed she was gravely ill and the infection had overwhelmed her, not that they were a bunch of incompetent boobs. It sounds as though you are getting help and that she can recover from this, hopefully when she stabilizes physically her mind will stabilize as well.
Difficult decision about the blood thinners vs her recent strokes. Often the patient is put on Lovenox subcutaneously for a while and then maybe a baby aspirin but it sounds like her PCP is on top of this.
Glad she is eating! She is very fornunate to have you and the rest of your family. Good luck!
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