My wife has been having more and more difficulty walking to the bathroom. I always help her by holding both arms and walking backwards to the bathroom. We don't really walk, it is more of a shuffle. It is only about 20 feet from the couch to the toilet passing through 2 doorways. The wheelchair that we have is too large to maneuver through the doorways and make a right turn.
Does anyone know of some sort of mobility chair like a wheelchair but smaller and more maneuverable? Please let me know because I would like to keep taking care of my wife for as long as possible. Thank you.
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Before you order one (see if her doctor will script it so Medicare will pay for some of it) make sure to neasure your doorways and the turns.
My DH aunt is on hospice for over a year now. They send a weekly nurse and bathing aides. This help could keep you and your wife managing for a longer period of time.
If she doesn’t qualify for hospice yet, the next step would be to check with home health for the homebound. She would qualify for that depending on your insurance. Again the home health agency will know if she qualifies and help with the paperwork. Similar durable medical equipment is available through Medicare only instead Of it being loaned by hospice suppliers it is rented by Medicare and they pay 80% and you or your supplement plan pays the other 20% for a set number of months and then it belongs to the insured.
With either of these programs you would receive a lot of help and should your wife need blood work or UTI tests, these can also be provided.
You sound like a wonderful husband and father. Wishing you good luck on getting the services your insurance provides.
A bedside commode is a compromise.. less independence & more work for you (to empty) but may be suitable, especially when she is very fatigued or at night.
My heart goes out to you & your wife. Do you get any home help? This would be the next step - to give you an extra hand or a break. Even if just a few visits a week, it could help you keep your wife at home as long as possible.
All of the answers so far seem very helpful.
The rollator walker suggested by Lizbitty is a great idea, but it looks like the one on Amazon has the seat in front of the person using it, which means she would have to turn around to use it. If you can get your wife onto that seat from her bed or chair, that may work for you. I spent hours looking for a walker with a seat that is behind and under the person using the walker, but only found one. The cost was about $800 and it was too rickety to risk using it. Best wishes. I hope you find a solution.
Also, some find it easier to remove the door off the bathroom for easier access.
Of course in the future when needed, you can buy a bedside toilet that can be located anywhere close by so your wife only had to shuffle a couple feet.
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Please write to your state congressperson about changing building codes to require a minimum of 30 inch doorways to all rooms in a home. The long-outdated 26 and 28 inch doors are a nuisance to young able-bodied people as well. They are very awkward for getting things in and out of rooms. I lived in one house where the bathroom doors were further cut down to create 24 inch doors. Boy did I learn to hate those stupid things every time I went through the doors with a pile of towels.
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We have a potty she can sit on like a toilet and the dung goes into a pot and I empty it. I forget its name though.