Long story short....my dad and his wife (my stepmother) were married for 36 years. 36 YEARS!! After he had his strokes, he became a different person to her. He wasn’t “the man she married”... Needless to say, they are divorced. She lives in another city. He lives with me and my family. I am his full time caretaker/daughter. She does not keep in contact with him. And vice versa.
So, should I let her and my step-sisters know when my dad passes?
I would call the ex. If the SS's are her girls than let her pass the news on.
And no, they do not have any contact with him anymore. It’s really sad.
If they care to know and won't give any problem after his death then I recommend you let them know.
And Definitely no inheritance.
Im sure they will care when he dies, but as of right NOW, while he’s alive, we don’t hear from them