He is almost silent at home with me but has always liked to talk with other men about sports, and bowling and men talk. I was hoping to find a place where I could leave him for a short time and see if he enjoys it. He is able to take care of his needs pretty well by himself so just hoping to find something he can find some enjoyment in and give me a little break for myself.
A park bench, men playing chess in the park, lawn bowling at the county park, lunch only at a senior center with congegate meals.
If I needed to drop off dH sometime, and pick him up later, I would choose a time when the men gather to clean the church. He wouldn't be the only one not really cleaning. I have observed groups of men talking, working, and only two out of ten are actually doing any work. I find this an interesting phenomenon.