My mother and aunt are 86 and 90; my aunt came home from the hospital and needs in home monitoring of her medical condition. My mother keeps saying that the health care provider can't do much other than monitor, but the brochure that I have lists many other services. How can I get them to allow and accept more care and help?
And they will get over the upset in due time, when they see that you aren't going to do it, and the helpers can... just a rough time for them to let go of one more stage of thier independence... let us know how thing work out...