We cared for our Mother for nine years afyer her Stroke. Mom passed on 03/27/2016. I also cared for my brother who passed due to Dialysis. He had the kidney failure for two years. My brother passed on 07/19/2018. I feel so lost. I have a sister that I live with. My sister is no support. I need depression assistance. I't is so unfair. My brother was only 60 years old when he passed. Help!!!!!!
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The Detroit Wayne Mental Health Authority is a safety net organization that provides a full array of services and supports to adults with mental illness, individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities, children with serious emotional disturbances and persons with substance use disorders. DWMHA provides empowerment to persons within our behavioral health system, serving nearly 75,000 citizens in Detroit and Wayne County.
The best option may be to join a grief support group, most hospitals can direct you to a list of them in your area - some even have groups that meet at the hospital. One thing that helped me was to keep a journal and just write down all the crazy whorl wind emotions, thoughts, and dreams that tried to take me down. It can take up to four years to grieve through a loss so if you can, engage in something you enjoy, take some classes, and get some exercise. You have to care for YOU now.
One grief support group that I attended after my Mom died was GriefShare. (Copy and paste URL to your browser.)
https://www.griefshare.org/about
GriefShare is for people grieving the death of a family member or friend. It is a small group of people who meet weekly for several months. You watch a video and then discuss your feelings about the video. There is a Workbook with assignments for each video along with practical ways to cope with Holidays, etc.
They also offer free daily Emails with inspirational messages and practical information as you grieve the loss of your loved one.
Berean Chapel of Detroit, 8422 Pembroke Ave, Detroit, MI is scheduled to have a GriefShare group on Jul 25, 2019 – Nov 7, 2019 on Thursdays at 6:30 pm.
You might want to contact them about their next meeting. Although the meetings are held in a church and the videos have religious content, the group is not there to "convert" you to their denomination.
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