12 months ago my ex partner was diagnosed with early onset dementia. In the last month she asks me 2 or 3 times a day by text : “when are you coming home?"
We have been separated for more than 3 years. I have been with my current partner for 2 years and get married in April. My ex has no memory of my current partner or life. She does not understand why I’m not living with her.
Best wishes to you.
One thing she always talks about is validating the feeling that the patient. It sounds like your ex misses you. Can you reassure her that you understand that she misses you, but that you have other obligations right now?