My sister has convinced my mother that I am some crazy out of control monster. I have always been a good daughter even my mother told me this. Somehow every thing turned upside down .
My sister changed after dads death. I gave her executor ship because she convinced me it was in every thing ones best interest. Well it backfired.
She changed. She now lies cheats and steals.
I had heard stories about other families broke apart where money was involved but you know you just think it won’t happen to you .
Well it has and with a bang
I feel like I’ve been picked up and shook upside down and around
My mother and sister have changed it into some kind of thing I don’t recognize .
What do you do?
What does executorship "allow" your sister to do? She can't do diddly until after Mom passes. Has she forced your Mom to hand over money, property basically abusing your Mom financially? Does she live with Mom, controls who comes/goes? Does Mom have a Will? Was it done through her attorney? Consult the attorney and Express your concerns about what your sister is doing.
When Mom passes and if ur beneficary then you can ask for an accounting of where Moms money went. If its found sister stole it, she will get less or owe you. Executorship is looked at by the court. Her responsibility is to pay Moms bills before any money can be split. And that has to be done by how the Will reads. If u get nothing, let it go.