I am not sure that the people I am thinking of appointing can do this, based on experience with elder. Now, the obvious answer is choose someone else. So what is plan b?
I am going to talk to my attorney about. But have any of you found yourself in similar situation? I 've not signed anything just have drafts.
But I am rethinking some things.
My in-law family owned a business and what happened after they passed and the business went belly up took three attorneys and would have made a wonderful show on FOX.
I am going to be one of the orphan elders. Just trying to get my stuff handled.
My Elder Law Attorney asked for "primary" and "secondary" for the Power of Attorney forms. The financial one was easy, I was able to appoint the law Firm as secondary, as this Firm had a half dozen Elder Law Attorneys.
The secondary for the Medical POA had my head swirling, as I couldn't appoint the Firm.
For the Will/Trust, I did appoint sig other as primary, and the Firm as secondary. And sig other did the same thing as I had told him if his grown children give me any grief, I want to turn the Trust to a stronger voice, thus the Firm.
Hope this helps.