I am 66, and was bedridden for 3 years due to a lumbar surgery then I had physical therapy and now I can walk. However, for long trips I need to use my walker and I hate it but I need it for long trips. I want to start working as that also in a music teacher. I am embarrassed and almost hurt to tears to have my students see me in a walker. Do you have any suggestions on how I can overcome my use of a walker? Sometimes if I'm on a small hill I would jump on my walker and ride it like a bike just to show that I'm not too old to do this.
My father viewed the walker as you do and refused to use it. He fell, broke his hip and died 10 months later as a result.
If it were me, I'd rejoice that I was able to walk again after lumbar surgery and only needed a walker for long trips.
I'll be 64 in July and I know darn well that I'm too old to do certain things anymore so I don't try. That doesn't mean I'm 'too old' to live life or to travel or to be the best ME I can be. Just that I'm too old to jump on pogo sticks or go skydiving, etc. Which is fine; it's acceptance of reality, is what it is.
Wishing you the best.
I had a series of 5 hip surgeries in 7 years, including a hip replacement starting at the age of 52, and had to use a walker each time. I was just grateful that I was able to use something to be able to go and do the things I enjoy.
I think you have to just come to the point where you just don't give a d*** what others may think, and thank God that you're able to walk again.
Don’t let this aversion to the stinking walker deprive some kid with potential of what YOU can give.
If it’s REALLY tough for you to get over this, try a few sessions with a Cognitive Behavioral Therapist.
Don’t let any more time go by to immerse yourself in doing something you love. You CAN do this!