I see that there are a lot of sibling issues in News Feed of late, and I’m sure many of us on this forum have endured bullying, manipulation etc from their siblings. These always seem to be the same siblings who do nothing to help and are only after the big prize at the end. I don’t know about your situation which has resulted in you yelling at your siblings as I haven’t seen any of your other posts. But my sister and I are also in a situation where we are not sure if we can trust our brother any longer who is the POA for our fathers estate. We are very disturbed by events that have led us to distrust him. He asked my sister something and she told him speak to me also which he refuses to do, why i don’t know. Now he is angry with her for telling me. Which leads me to think that he intends to be unethical or sneaky. I have made a claim for Government Care payments recently but I don’t like my chances as our father has excess assets which only my brother has access to. Initially I was living off a term deposit but now that’s all gone with the cost of living. My Dad has been helping me out with grocery shopping but I really don’t feel comfortable using his money. besides which , my brother resents it. So I am looking for casual work while our brother earns over $200k a year. All I have is $ 460 fortnightly pension which wouldn’t last a week. Do I feel like screaming at him? I honestly can’t be bothered now.
Why don't you try forgiving them instead and then move on with your life? From your many other posts as of late it is obvious that you do need to see a good therapist or counselor. I hope you will do just that.
What's good is to remove yourself from abusive relationships in general, get therapy to deal with the trauma that's ensued from them, and to realize this forum is one for caregivers to elders who have issues or questions or need guidance relating to the elder care they're performing.
Here is a link to the top 15 abuse/ discussion and message board forums online currently:
It may make you feel good but will not effect them. They will just think u have finally lost it.
Your therapist should be giving you the tools to deal with these people. There's the "Grey Rock" method where u just ignore them.
Are u living in the US? I know some cultures its hard to walk away. But thats what you need to do. Get a job and a place of your own. If a parent needs care, seems there are other children who can pick up the flack.
I hope you will do just that.
Here is a link to the top 15 abuse/ discussion and message board forums online currently:
https://blog.feedspot.com/abuse_forums/
Your therapist should be giving you the tools to deal with these people. There's the "Grey Rock" method where u just ignore them.
Are u living in the US? I know some cultures its hard to walk away. But thats what you need to do. Get a job and a place of your own. If a parent needs care, seems there are other children who can pick up the flack.
"Why I'm crying, feel sad and angry after therapy. Is it normal or this is because I know how every one hurt me and damaged my life?"
https://www.agingcare.com/questions/why-im-crying-feel-sad-and-angry-after-therapy-is-it-normal-or-this-is-because-i-know-how-every-one--481255.htm
https://www.agingcare.com/questions/should-i-visit-toxic-father-i-live-in-toxic-family-481245.htm
Are you seeing a therapist?