I'm 17, my mom passed suddenly, 3 months ago. My dad now has to live in a nursing home.( He is disabled, she was his primary caretaker) Our home is being sold, and I'm told all proceeds go to nursing home. I have to support myself. How can this be true
As to a solution outside of Juvenile Court or other institution, I don't think jurisdiction would extend to Jude. I worked in the County Juvenile Court as a court reporter; there were two areas of jurisdiction: neglect and delinquency. Caseworkers were overloaded; a situation like Jude's wouldn't even be considered neglect, but this was also several decades ago.
Your suggestions for an interested teacher or person in her high school are good; she could get that kind of support more easily than an overworked counselor or social worker who might not be experienced in handling a situation like this.
Jude, I'm wondering also if your aunt could step in to help out until you go to college, or are there any other relatives who could provide support? I'm a bit concerned after reading Iggy's comments on emancipated minors. If school staff become involved, they might have to report to social services that a 17 year old girl is living alone. I believe that school officials are mandated reporters, which means that certain conditions require them by law to notify authorities.
Perhaps even an adult cousin or relative could stay with you in the house until you leave for college.
I don't want to frighten you, but just help you to be aware of the issues that might arise.
Just wanted to add that I hope you continue to share what you learn from contacting folks today so we can follow your progress.
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