Mom suffers from incurable UTi's. She is taking xanex to help her anxiety but then she sleeps all day and tells me to just leave her alone. She is also fully disabled, just numerous issues, I dont have hospice although I know she qualifies for it. I am comfortable with most of my decision and I know alot medically. I just not comfortable making the decision to leave her alone. And what I mean is just to allow her to sleep and make her decisions when to eat and drink. But I am tired of yelling at her to drink, eat. etc..... I stopped her taking the xanex because of her sleeping all the time, but today her aide said she thought she needed it. And really I was doing it for me and not making my mom comfortable. OH JESUS I sound like a freaking nut. Not sure if any of it makes since.