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"Mom's never been away from me. Sis conned her into moving with her & won't give me the address. Mom wants to see me. How do I report to APS?"
On that same post 11 hrs ago you said:
"Mom didn't move in with her. My sister is mean she comes in my house yelling at my mom. She's bossy yellimg at me what I can't do in my house for example smoke in my home. I think she's jealous of our relationship because she's been gone for 20 years and moved back to our location."
That post was very contradictory. She moved in with sister she didn't move in with sister. At this point...
Its YOUR HOUSE, YOUR RULES. You don't have to let your sister in. You do not have to subject your Mom or yourself to abuse in your own home. If Sis has a key, then change the locks. Call the police if she comes and demands to be let in. Let her complain to the Police and APS. When they investigate, tell them the situation. It may mean you can get a restraining order.
You have no profile. Does Mom have a Dementia? If not and this sister is causing Mom to be frightened, maybe a restraining order can be done. I may check that out any way.
It’s not contradictory. One post says the sister talked the in to moving with her. It doesn’t say mom actually did. The 2nd post says mom never actually moved. I nearly called out the contradiction but after re-reading, I realized the OPs mom was talked in to doing something but never actually followed through with it.
So why do you let her in then? And please stick to one post. You previously posted about this on November and you just replied to that post. No need to have 2 posts going and it causes confusion for the responders.
You have a simple problem with a simple solution. Keep the door locked and don’t answer when your sister knocks. If she won’t go away, call the police.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
"Mom's never been away from me. Sis conned her into moving with her & won't give me the address. Mom wants to see me. How do I report to APS?"
On that same post 11 hrs ago you said:
"Mom didn't move in with her. My sister is mean she comes in my house yelling at my mom. She's bossy yellimg at me what I can't do in my house for example smoke in my home. I think she's jealous of our relationship because she's been gone for 20 years and moved back to our location."
That post was very contradictory. She moved in with sister she didn't move in with sister. At this point...
Its YOUR HOUSE, YOUR RULES. You don't have to let your sister in. You do not have to subject your Mom or yourself to abuse in your own home. If Sis has a key, then change the locks. Call the police if she comes and demands to be let in. Let her complain to the Police and APS. When they investigate, tell them the situation. It may mean you can get a restraining order.
You have no profile. Does Mom have a Dementia? If not and this sister is causing Mom to be frightened, maybe a restraining order can be done. I may check that out any way.
Your other post says that your mom lives with her.
Which posting is correct? You stated something about your sister not liking your smoking in your home.
Can you clarify please?
Is your mom is back with you and your sister is complaining about smoke?
Why doesn’t your mom want to see your sister?
Obviously, you and your sister are not on friendly terms. Is mom caught in the middle of your feud?
You have a simple problem with a simple solution. Keep the door locked and don’t answer when your sister knocks. If she won’t go away, call the police.